What size are u?

Konichiwa.. Today, Im gonna talk about body size. What size are u?

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Don’t tell me, tell to yourself. Does it even matter??

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Eat while u can..

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If it does matter, I really got to say yup. Sometimes people’s perceptions towards an oversizes individual  are really damn cruel. As for them, we look so ugly and going to get blotted anytime. They also might think that we just a nuisance to them, we are the bad image of the world. Do u agree?

This kind of perception really make us lose confident and lowering our self esteem. So ladies, if u are in this situation, what are u going to do??

Well, Im not a thin lady. I’ve got few spare tyre on my stomach & I got a big butt. S***, really wanna lose them. But after all I’ve done, the spare tyre comes & go and my butt never ever shrink over time. Haha, u might also experience the same things right? We diet and exercise everyday but only few pounds going down. If we are rich, we just can go to any weight management programmed.  BUT for how long does it last?

Some people who got a high motivation might last long maintaining their body, but some who doesn’t (like me) only last for few month and then puff, transform again to the original size. Few month ago, I lost about 25 pounds but today, I’ve earn back 20 pounds and still counting. It really were a big deal for me before, but now, I just realized, It does not even matter.

WHY? haha. Because Im tired of getting rid of my favorite food (ice-cream & chocolate). I wanna eat everything that I wanted. Plus, if your boyfriend or your crush doesn’t like an oversize girl, asked them to STEP OUT! Guys, who really truly love his girl, wont ever look at the body size. They should accept us for who we really are.

BUT ladies, Im not saying here that u should all be in a relief mode when u are a plus size lady. U should always aware of your health. There are also some limitation for a plus size lady; eg, fashion.

Choose your style wisely

Usually, we cant wear all type of cloth because of our size. Some design & cloth material are really not suitable for us to wear. We should carefully choose the right type of cloth & design to wear as we wanna look a little bit thinner.

Here’s something that many plus size  women don’t know.. you can actually enhance your curves with your hairstyle. One of thebest ways to achieve this is by playing up your best features which could be your eyes, your lips, or your nose. Choose styles that flatter your face shape such as shorter styles which look great on curvy women. Bob haircuts, and pixie styles are looks that can really bring out your lips and cheekbones, while longer layered styles with side swept bangs are great for bringing attention to your eyes.

So, my suggestion is, LOSE a few pounds till u are satisfied, (at first just lose bout 5 pounds is alright). Then eat everything that u like BUT with small portion (except in any special occasion, hee~~ I know I cant resist the temptation too :p ), then do sport that u like. Anything, dancing, swimming, YOGA, tennis, etc. Make sure your weight doesn’t exceed the weight after u lose some pounds. If it almost reach, try to lose some weight again. Do it all and over again, and maybe in few years, u might get the ideal weight that u always dream of.

Guess who is she?

Crystal Renn is a plus sized model who for years starved herself skinny to become the size 0 in her quest to become the next great supermodel. Few years later, she realized one day during a particularly traumatic casting call that she could no longer maintain the horrible cycle she was in without dying. So she gave in an ate and allowed herself to break the cycle of denial that she’d been in for so long. She’s now the highest paid plus sized model in the world and she’d only 23!

Hence ladies, There’s nothing wrong is u are a plus sized as long as u keep your body healthy. Keep your head up, and be confident to walk through life. Im with u~~ ^_^

Posted on February 2, 2011, in Motivations & Inspirations, Tutorials & Classes. Bookmark the permalink. 6 Comments.

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