Jangan mencari terlalu sempurna~ Dont find someone perfect

BUAT PEDOMAN BERSAMA.

Jika kamu memancing ikan…. Setelah ikan itu terlekat di mata kail, hendaklah kamu mengambil ikan itu…. Janganlah sesekali kamu LEPASKAN ia semula ke dalam air begitu saja…. Karena ia akan SAKIT oleh kerana bisanya ketajaman mata kailmu dan mungkin ia akan MENDERITA selagi ia masih hidup.

Begitulah juga ………  Setelah kamu memberi banyak PENGHARAPAN kepada seseorang… Setelah ia mulai MENYAYANGIMU hendaklah kamu MENJAGA hatinya…. Janganlah sesekali kamu meninggalkannya begitu saja…. Kerana dia akan TERLUKA oleh kenangan bersamamu dan mungkin TIDAK dapat MELUPAKAN segalanya selagi dia mengingatmu….

Jika kamu menadah air biarlah berpada, jangan terlalu mengharap pada takungannya dan janganlah menganggap ia begitu teguh…. cukuplah sekadar keperluanmu….Apabila sekali ia retak…. tentu sukar untuk kamu menambalnya semula…. Akhirnya ia dibuang….  Sedangkan jika kamu cuba memperbaikinya mungkin ia masih dapat dipergunakan lagi….

Begitu juga jika kamu memiliki seseorang, TERIMALAH seadanya…. Janganlah kamu terlalu mengaguminya dan janganlah kamu menganggapnya begitu istimewa…. Anggaplah dia manusia biasa. Apabila sekali dia melakukan KESILAPAN bukan mudah bagi kamu untuk menerimanya…. akhirnya kamu KECEWA dan meninggalkannya.  Sedangkan jika kamu MEMAAFKANNYA boleh jadi hubungan kamu akan TERUS hingga ke akhirnya….

Jika kamu telah memiliki sepinggan nasi… yang kamu pasti baik untuk dirimu. Mengenyangkan. Berkhasiat. Mengapa kamu berlengah, cuba mencari makanan yang lain.. Terlalu ingin mengejar kelezatan. Kelak, nasi itu akan basi dan kamu tidak boleh memakannya. Kamu akan menyesal.

Begitu juga jika kamu telah bertemu dengan seorang insan….. yang pasti membawa KEBAIKAN kepada dirimu. MENYAYANGIMU… MENGASIHIMU… Mengapa kamu berlengah, cuba MEMBANDINGKANNYA dengan yang lain. Terlalu mengejar kesempurnaan. Kelak, kamu akan KEHILANGANNYA apabila dia menjadi milik orang lain Kamu juga yang akan MENYESAL….     sampaikan kebenaran walaupon ianya perit 🙂

Taken from~ http://www.facebook.com/notes/say-woot-woot/jangan-mencari-terlalu-sempurna-drfadilah-kamsah/202183419808627

Well ladies.. people tend to find perfection in every little things they do especially in finding someone important to them. WHY?

“We were given two hands to hold, two legs to walk, two eyes to see, two ears to listen. But why only one heart? Because the other was given to someone else, for us to find.”

We, as a human are NOT and NEVER be perfect. ONLY GOD does. So why there is a need to find perfection? Im not saying Im not finding someone perfect for my life BUT I’ve STOP searching for Mr. Perfect. What I’ve learnt from my experience, NONE can ever fulfill my desire (What desire??? hahaa.. never think negative okay..^^ )

“Men always want to be a woman’s first love – What women like is to be a man’s last romance.”

Oscar Wilde

Right now, Im searching for someone to complete my life. That is what we suppose to search. According to the above article, NEVER let go of someone which has bring some happiness to u. Take care of their heart. WHY because of a simple matter u broke up? WHY? Sometimes patience plays an important role in life. IF they hurt u, endure a little. Forgive them.  This kind of relationship, Forgive and Forget, sometimes might let the relationship go further and long lasting. InsyaAllah till the end of life.

“With love and patience, nothing is impossible.” Daisaku Ikeda

When u decided to end a relationship, have u think wisely what could happen? They might get hurt. Sometime it wont cure through time. And they wont ever be able to overcomes the dark past memory that have invade their life. Is that really okay to u??

“Love is as much of an object as an obsession, everybody wants it, everybody seeks it, but few ever achieve it, those who do will cherish it, be lost in it, and among all, never… never forget it.”

Well, a little advice to u, when u want to start a relationship, set your mind (Berniat), that u wanted to take care of the relationship till the end. Even in ISLAM, there are NO kind of relationship that is allowed before married. Only started a relationship when u are really sured to end it with a marriage. That is the proper ways of involving in a relationship.

“Love may be blind but marriage is a real eye-opener.”

When u have found the one to complete your life, NEVER ever compare them with others. That wont do. Appreciate what u got. Love what u have. Care for them. They might not be perfect, but everything that they got will complete our life.

“Love isn’t finding a perfect person, it’s seeing an imperfect person perfectly.”

“Don’t let doubts lose the magic of love, because it’s not every day you meet someone who has the magic to let you fall in love.”

Well, I may not be someone suitable to give advices as all my relationship fell apart and were broken to pieces. BUT as a human being, as a friend, I might have a responsibility to give advices so that u wont become like me… hee ^_^

LADIES, held up your head, walk straight, BE confident. What ever obstacle that may arise, KICK it, PUNCH it, BITE it and put it away in a garbage and send it to space to be eaten by a black hole. HAhaha.. BE a Superwoman because we are special. ^_^

S.M.I.L.E always y’all… Lurve u….

“If I had to choose between loving you and breathing, I would use my last breath to say I love you.”