Assalamualaikum Ladies.. How are u? Today’s post is not about Loreal okay! haha.. BUT Im going to post another shawl tutorial!! This time, I give a tutorial on the style that I’ve been experimenting recently. Some of u who might already seen me somewhere and might recognize this style.
Today Im so wanna stress out about THINGS that make me wanna write this blog.
1stly, I wanna help people especially Ladies to be confident.
2ndly, I wanna put up a S.M.I.L.E in your face through any means that I can.
So, have u ever read any of my post? If u really are into my post, u might have encounter with the phrases like,
“No matter where u are, where u come from, and whatever u wear, NEVER EVER feel embarrass of who u are, because, NOBODY can be u except u!”
(From the post, Ladies Only! (no peeping :p )
“Theres some people does not even think that u should be different. But I do. Its not about to show the world what class u are, or where u are from but by building up your confident, u can show the world that u are different.”
(From the post Rainbow Chick Turban)
“Ladies, u are all beautiful. Ask Christina Aguilera. She knows best! LOL Just be confident of yourself, and people will always look at u differently. Trust me….”
(From the post, A little something to share…)
“people’s impression won’t kill u. Be yourself. Have faith in u, No matter where u are, what races are u, what religions u are in, Be CONFIDENT. U are U, NO ONE ELSE CAN be U!”
“Hence ladies, There’s nothing wrong is u are a plus sized as long as u keep your body healthy. Keep your head up, and be confident to walk through life. Im with u~~ ^_^ “
(From the post, What size are u?)
“We cant stop people’s from talking. So just let it be. Be yourself, be confident, find your true identity and personality. Dont be scared to show yourself ladies. REMEMBER, everyone is different, because everyone is unique”
(From the post, White is so not for me~)
“U must do lot of things to change your life to be lot happier, For a start, why don’t u increase your self-confidence and try to say out loud ‘ I CAN’.”
(From the post, Are u an Optimist, Realist or Pessimist?)
“Ladies, always be confident. Dont ever feel down of your self because we all are different and we are all unique.”
(From the post, When u S.M.I.L.E)
“Sometimes on our way to evolve, we get to hear all kind of music. Some are good and some are bad. Later on, the same question were played in mind. “Why everything that I’ve done are wrong?” When I did bad is wrong; when I do deeds are also wrong?? So what should we do?”
(From the post, Why everything that I’ve done are wrong?)
“LADIES, held up your head, walk straight, BE confident. What ever obstacle that may arise, KICK it, PUNCH it, BITE it and put it away in a garbage and send it to space to be eaten by a black hole. HAhaha.. BE a Superwoman because we are special. ^_^”
(From the post, Jangan mencari terlalu sempurna~ Dont find someone perfect)
“I believe in Fairy Tale because I do believe that all of us are destined to be happy in our life.”
(From the post, I do believe in Fairy tales)
“Who says a lady cant be rough???”
(From the post, Me can so u can)
“So ladies, Anything u wear, be Confident because It shows your true beauty”
(From the post,Hikayat 1001 Malam)
Well, some people might think that I wanna let people to follow what I wear, whatever I do or say. I would like to say a BIG NO to that because that is not my intention.
Whatever I write here totally are to boost your confident for who u really are. If u are comfortable of being who u are is fine as long as u are confident walking through life being like who u really are.
IF u are pretending to be confident of who u really are but in reality u are NOT CONFIDENT of who u really wanna be, that means conflict to find your true identity.
MOST of ladies out there are confronting with this conflict. WHY am I saying this?? Let see the proves,
most of ladies LOVEs to read magazines and fashion show. But they just can say, “If only I can wear those”.
They see other people are following the trend or most people called them ‘FASHIONISTA’ but they just can watch and say, If I can be like them.
The crucial problems is that they can’t wear those. WHY?
As a muslim, I know we cant wear cloth that will show our aurat (body part). Yes I admit, but what is the point we learn the word, ‘INNOVATIVE’ or ‘CREATIVE’??
Asked yourself please.
There are many ‘muslimah’ cloth out there that are sold vastly throughout the world. There are many kinds of shawls and hijab that are so beautiful to be worn. Everything is up to yourself. IF u wanna be different, THINK different.
Sometimes, I know, people will always be confident of who they really are (If that is what they really mean). I wrote about it in one of my post
“Why everything that I’ve done are wrong?”
There, I said,
“Everything will get so worse when we are in a totally different world from where we lived in. People from the north wont know what is the culture of people in south. Everything that ‘south’ did are wrong to ‘north’ and vice versa. This is another reason why everything that u’ve done are wrong because u are so well adapted to your culture. To change from one’s culture to another might take quite a long time and hard work is required. So we have to be patient. When we know we did the right thing, stay focus. If doesn’t, Change. Even it takes million years to change, its fine as long as we tried to be better.”
Some people doesnt have confidence to wear something new. This is why it is important to boost up your confidence level. U can wear anything that your heart desire as long as u know what to wear and must always be CONFIDENT.
In conclusion, If u really are comfortable of who u are and that make u feel much much confident, I must say, BE YOURSELF! If u just cant confront with your true self because of your confident are low, Start to change and be more confident to show who u really are.
Like what I always said before, IF u really are confident, other people will see it. You are not only gonna be seen confident but your inner beauty will also be visible to others….
“We are all UNIQUE and the difference make the world so much beautiful.. “
Love all of u…. Keep your head up & start to walk with confident………
S.M.I.L.E always ^_^
What will you do when you feel thrill and excited? Will you shout? Or will you scream? Or will you cry instead??
Life is a rollercoaster
Well that is what i heard from most people. There will be up, down, upside down and most importantly its moving fast!
Enjoy the ride or scream. Its your choice
Some others were saying that inconjunction with life is a rollercoaster. Well, as for me, i’ll scream and shout when im enjoying the ride. Not because i am scared nor i am regreting getting onto it, but i wanna feel the excitement, and wanna makes others riding with me thrilled too. If you just sitting quitely (which might makes u seems like enjoying by yourself) i think it is BORING!
life is a rollercoaster
When you are going up to the top, some might not wants to hold onto the belt nor the handle because you know and trust the belt is strong enough to hold you. Well, the belt methaphorically is your families and friends. No matter what they will always hold u to safety. Support you toghtly when going up and down. But the problems is, when you are going down…..
Some crazy people will think when they are some sort of losing something, nor declining from their carrier or business, they still wont hold the handle cause they still believe no matter what happen, the belt wont lose hope on them. The belt will keep on fasting and supporting them till the end of ride. Tgese crazy people is the people who will success. Even falling down, they are brave enough to take all the possible risks.
Nonetheless, most people when going down will start shaking, hold on tightly to all possible means not to fall down from the ride. They are usually forget about the belt that will always supporting them. They will shout frantically and losing their mind to the end and wont be enjoying the ride anymore.
Its just the same when you are going upside down. It is a matter of your own mind to trust and believe in yourself and the support given by all your families and friends or not.
At this very moment, my belt arent strong enough to hold me towards the end of my ride. Whatever it is, i will try finding the best and strongest belt to support me and i will believe and trust them until i am successful finishing my awesome and enjoying ride. insyaAllah.
As you might know or not, world nowadays are filled with GMO product or so called genetically modified organism. Most of our food contains this Genetically modified (GM) product. It can be anything from crops to animals.
Currently Im dining in a Mcd with my friend, and he suddenly brought up the topic ‘nowadays, if we wanna see the beauty of a woman; we need to see her face to face because they can always use photoshop for editting their pictures on social networks’. LOL.
Today I would like to write about manglish which the word originated from mangled-english that is spoken by Malaysian. Well, Im an English Teacher, Yet, my english are not so perfect like American nor British.
I may not seem like one decent lady, but I know who and what I am. I am one independent lady with too many responsibilities to be held. I have one supportive happy big family, cheerful friends, and I also have pretty huge ambition.
The way Im being judge and treated recently are totally unacceptable. They make me fall today, I’ll rise thousand times higher tomorrow. What we did, what we do and what we are doing is unknown to all except Allah SWT. SO NEVER JUDGE! Your eyes are not that powerful to see things through.
At the very least I am being ‘me’ and Im not a hypocrite like the one they think pious and all. A free little advice, ‘See things next to you first~’
It is like you are laughing to those you see wearing top but you, yourself are topless. Lol
I am Alia, I am a lady with high spirit and confident, I may be wrong sometime, but I know how to turn and change myself. I still have my faith to Allah. I am still a Muslim. If we are brothers and sisters of Islam, treat everyone equally. Teach if they are wrong or I am wrong. But never put a sentence to them. NEVER give your deadly judgement. You knew nothing. Only Allah knows.
Im not a good writer nor a superb poet. But my writings all comes deep within my heart. What I see, What I feel, What I think, and What I do will always affect my writing. You can click here to read my poem ( https://chicwannabe.wordpress.com/2012/07/29/aku-tidak-mengerti-aku-mahupun-kamu/ ).
The poet sees how life goes on. She took lots of advises in her way to achieve her dream. She is moving towards it without stopping.
The poet started to think again how fast she had moved. How she forget the wonderfulness of life and she began to forget her dream and slowly becoming lost and started to get farther from God.
The poet knows she’d found her dream, but, when she found her love one, she stopped and change her reason to live. Yet, she’s still in puzzled, she’s still doesnt feel the togetherness with her lover. All of a sudden, the dream she always running for is left far behind for the sake of love.
Alhamdulillah, praise to Allah SWT, i can still write this entry. The long forgoten blog in my happy time and whenever i had a very good life but will always come back here in the bad time which u always become my loyal listener.. Thanks reader ^_^
I always sing one Raihan’s song but never apply to it. Have u heard it before?
Today, Ive been accused by someone by being socialized(?). Well, please dont judge a book by its cover. I may be a fashionist, but the accusation doesnt fit at all! Yes, im sociable. But not in the term u accused me.
Yes im sociable with everyone~ I work everyday and night, meet people and YES Im socialiZed with them! But who are they?